Amy Vanderbilt's Etiquette is the New Revised Edition from Doubleday, carrying copyright dates through 1972, with drawings by Fred McCarroll, Mary Suzuki and Andy Warhol.
The red jacket has chipped and torn at the spine ends and corners, the red has faded to a warm orange along the spine, and a diagonal bend creases the black board at the top right corner, all of it in the photos. The pages underneath are white and clean, with no writing found in them.
The jacket notes over 2,500,000 copies in use, which is a fair sign of how many American homes kept this book within reach. Inside, The Ceremonies of Life covers wedding gifts and registration, Dress and Manners covers when women wear hats and how gloves are worn, and Invitations, Acceptances, and Regrets lays out engraved dinner invitations in full. It suits a reader who wants the old rules of a formal table on the shelf, or a hostess who still likes a written invitation.
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This copy keeps its 1972 revised text, its white pages, and a small bundle of 1994 clippings in the back, and it belongs on the shelf of someone who still sets a proper table. If it's the right copy for you, it's ready to come home.
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